Behind the beauty

Many philosophers and writers have written and write about beauty. And, as usual, the theories are divided between defamatory and admirers of beauty how to make extra money.

For the defamatory, beauty is a characteristic or feeling less, rather it is even harmful. Among the defamatory are Descartes, who said that beauty is against reason, Dostoijevski (also writer and philosopher) believes that beauty is a terrible and frightening, because undefinable. Even the Church, which considers the ephemeral beauty compared with other feelings such as tenderness, generosity, respect for others because they keep people together, than does the beauty. But already there is a discordant voice in the Church and that of S. Augustine, who defines beauty as “the mutual relationship of parts to the whole” and, for him, all would be the hand of the Lord. Even more than Plotinus Plato (in Phaedrus and Phaedo) finds the beauty within the soul itself. The loving soul is light, but can be obscured by an ugly occurred from the body and matter.

Then there are the Greek theories of beauty considered as harmony (as the timber of a boat, the stones of a building, etc..), Or the theory of Heraclitus that considers how beauty is born from opposites (as quoted by Yin and Yan Jung). Theories “negative”, however, are dominant, because the beauty dulls the region and makes us forget the true feelings. And in the French Nouveaux Philosophie, Pascal Bruckner, arrives to claim that human beauty is the ultimate injustice.All, in fact, they can become rich, but for beauty enhancement there is a limit … and they know that young men suffer from this condition!
The second point I wish to discuss is the exterior. The television is like whether to refer the outside surfaces of the body. The old saying Socratic “know thyself” refers to the outside of each of us. Today the appearance goes well and is still valid, the proverb “better to look good to be better.” Today, the external beauty in many cases, more important than inner beauty, charm, which can also be defined. To use a metaphor that describes the Venetian painters Canaletto Venice is highest rated Look at the plays from the inside. I, like the Venetian, Look like the most who played the dissolution of Venice at the end of the eighteenth century.In addition to a search for an aesthetic improvement over the woman, currently shows more and more the “Adonis complex”. The male suffering from this type of complex is obsessed with his own line, upon awakening in the morning goes to the bathroom, you weigh, you can admire in the mirror and then goes to the gym a couple of hours a day not to lose the pounds, but the ‘ pound more. He wears tight shirts and trousers, it deodorizes the armpits, is rubbed into the body. He does not talk to bodybuilding and considers his body as a passport to success. This nation has its myths of Adonis as the actor Russell Crowe, star of the movie “Gladiator.” I am not health conscious, as are dedicated to aesthetics, their muscles are not used as an instrument of seduction and serves to improve self-esteem. Although women use beauty to strengthen self-esteem rather than seduction.

The survey carried out in Paris for a fashion studios on new bras air showed that women used these new instruments to get to the sex, but to improve self-image and, therefore, as for Adoni, women use beauty in a narcissistic perspective more than in the relational perspective. The advantages of being beautiful, have been described by French sociologist Jean Francoise Amadieu Paris who wrote the book “the weight of appearance.” The capital of the company is creating beauty in our differences are not anecdotal. For example, in some trades of negotiation, representation and television or other communication is needed the dowry of beauty. An American study has shown that people are agile and nimble in more than 10% chance of finding a job than the obese because they are judged more intelligent beautiful, ambitious and sociable even though in Italy the idea persists in some males, a beautiful woman is “slut”.
This difference starts already in the school because the University of Michigan carried out two studies in primary schools showed that boys are favored beautiful. Teachers, in fact, think that these are most likely to succeed in education and, consequently, are more interested in themselves and their work and this increases the confidence in themselves. A dynamic success story is set in motion because these guys, appreciated by their teachers, establish links with other boys and benefit. This discrimination is even more important today when civilization dominated by appearances. So the beautiful, according to the advertising, is synonymous with social success, accelerates career plans and the beauty of it is automatically good and true. There are also other advantages of beauty: a) beauty is a comfort, a reassurance against the sorrows of life, how you ask the mirror of Snow White, b) the beauty opens us the doors of a dream that is the absence of violence, you know that the bad guys are bad: so if the whole world was beautiful, perhaps the violence would disappear; c) Beauty is a brake against the age, now have a child at 40 years it has become commonplace and Some women retain their menstruation up to 60 years.
The cosmetic surgeon can help to highlight what it is but at times can become perverted and help the person to produce what is not there, because age has passed. The surgery should help us accept our age making some best characteristics of age, not to encourage the youth to the wild ride is a way of believing his own immortality.And it is hard to resist this movement because we live in a society that values ??the beauty of teenage teenager. When beauty is a handicap I have written in my portal www.willypasini.it three women. The first is called Lea. It is a classic beauty type greek with her long hair framing a face with perfect features. The success, since his teens with men, she disliked, and now that the librarian makes you angry when men look at her rather than books.
In his past has received a good education where there was stiff but the religious principle that beauty is a quality less important than the fatuous and inner beauty. At the time of adolescence, Lea had even thought of becoming a nun. Lea is a good girl but a little ‘stiff and his favorite color is gray. Being beautiful is already in itself for her to be an exhibitionist, showing and exhibiting confused and rigorous in his personality and beauty to create more disadvantages than advantages.
The second is called Lydia, runs a museum of modern art, is a beautiful girl of 35 years and has a son but no husband. She is a bit ‘being abandoned, and his romantic heart think that a man will come to make her happy and give meaning to his life.
In short, an old-fashioned girl. I wrote saying that the men she meets often for his job they want as a sexual partner because of its beauty, but not for a loving relationship that lasts. Lydia thinks that its aesthetic qualities to create many misunderstandings with men. And maybe he’s right, today lack the time and manner of the court. Today many teenagers make love to communicate and are very beautiful in these meetings benefit from rapid first night, but then disappointed.
Then there’s Martha, who is 26 years old, very calm and very beautiful with blonde hair loose over her shoulders leading. Marta is married and self-confident, but can not stand the jealousy of co-workers who criticize because every time the manager of the company goes into their plan, the compliment is ambiguous.The other girls who want to be noticed, have a strong evil to Martha, for now, he pulled my hair in a bun. But his peaceful soul is disturbed by these professional tensions and would like her colleagues were a little ‘more supportive or her a little’ less attractive. I think that beauty should be in relation with the character of the person.If a person is very much based on seduction and beauty on the outside rather than charm, be handsome because his style of life beauty is important, as a model to be tall and slender. Instead, other people, beauty is a quality that makes life more complicated. Like the wife whose husband asked to be beautiful, maybe not for him, but for the looks of other men. The last point I want to address is the link between beauty and sexuality. Now those who have a more satisfying sex are hermaphrodites in a psychological sense: that is, those who are co-existing male and female characteristics, even of beauty, without too many conflicts. In addition, the beauty is not useful to sexuality, but to the previous stage which is the seduction.The beautiful chances to have more “down” from the sexual point of view, however, the bad are much more competent. In my long practice of sex therapist I have noticed that you look nice and beautiful navel neglecting the report, while the bad are a lot more attention to the sexual relationship they are experiencing and, therefore, for sexuality, “Long live the ugly.”